Today i had to go and bury my cousin whom was only 5 he died from cancer, and i really am trying to understand how someone so young, bright and sooooooooooo lovely could go so soon, i know it sad doing this i just felt like asking for oher views, bcos it is so sad and heartbreaking.

Oh my God, Sisi, this is really sad. My condolences to you and your family!
I can't remember any relative who passed away so young. Death is not very understandable in any occasion.

Sisi- you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. This is a very young age to lose someone that you love. I'm a teacher and I've lost three students in their teens. This was very difficult then so I can only imagine it being a family member. I can't give you a reason why God takes people when he does. BUT if I get to Heaven this is one of the many questions that I plan on asking him. Sorry hon -hang in there.

oh my god, my condelences to everyone in your family!! I do know the feeling..it wasn't family, but it was a dear friend of mine that died in a tragic and weird accident. He wasn't that young, he was 11 but still. So hang in there, because even thoug he's gone, he is in your heart. Again my condelences to you and your family ;)

my prayers go out to you & your family :( .. I too have lost a young cousin, she was 13 when she passed. I have also lost 2 other cousins, one was in his early 30's & the other was in his early 40's, they all also passed from Cancer. Next month is the 12 yr anniversary of my best friend from High Schools death as well, she died 2 days after my 28th birthday... she was only 27

Thanks everyone, for your messages it still looks unreal that i am actually talking about him in this way, but he was in so much pain and i have come to the conclusion that he has finally found rest. What struck me most was how matured he was about it all and yeasterday all his teachers came and i knew for sure he lived life to the maximum because he brought smiles to a lot of faces, i would have loved to upload one of his pics but i don't know how to..

sisi if you want to email me a pic of your cousin i would be very happy to upload the pic on your behalf, you can email me at [email protected]

Oh God!! my condelences to you dear.it's so sad and i'm sorry
I lost two friends last year,they were only 14 but they didn't pass from cancer,It was very hard